Hamo Posted August 29, 2002 Report Share Posted August 29, 2002 xolodnie stekliannie cveti - navernoe eto bilo rasstovanie:) :xmas: A naschet bogatix i bednix, to kogda sozdayosh` sem`yu material`noe blago uje poluchaetsia odno obschim na oboix (ili bol`she), bolee vazhnuyu rol` igraet intellektual`noe sootvetstvie mezhdu suprugami. I ledi kandidatu nauk neiteresno obschat`sia s PTUshnikom (i naooborot tozhe), xotia konechno est' iskliucheniya i "PTUshnik" mozhet bit` ochen` interesen v obschenii, no rech` idet o "srednestatisticheskix dannix":) Ved` nado vmeste zhizn` prozhit` i nuzhen drug (podruga) po zhizni i ne tol'ko v vide "tugogo koshel`ka". Xotia est` i takie kto chetko znaet chto im nuzhno, oni znayut sebe cenu i mogut sebia "prodat`", sredi nix est' mnogo schastlivix, tak mozhet oni pravi?No mne kazhetsia chto zolotaya seredina eto kogda vibiraesh` po obschechelovecheskim kachestvam i chustvam, i vsegda mozhno vdvoyom naiti sposob "tugo nabit` kosheliok" :) :xmas:V kakom-to smisle eto bilo rasstagvanie - menya potom v armiyu zabrali Masha, mne kazhetsya, ne sushestvuet "recepta schastya", ne pridumali poka. Tak chto kazhdiy pridumivaet dlya sebya, a potom na praktike ego proveryaet i rasskazivaet drugim :)chasto samie 'podxodyashie' drug drugu lyudi goda vmeste ne zhivut, a samie rasnie - vmeste 'do groba'. I naoborot bivaet ne rezhe. Esim... 'Kazhdiy chelovek - kuznechik svoego schastya' ©dontrememberwho. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Masha Posted August 29, 2002 Report Share Posted August 29, 2002 Masha, mne kazhetsya, ne sushestvuet "recepta schastya", ne pridumali poka. Tak chto kazhdiy pridumivaet dlya sebya, a potom na praktike ego proveryaet i rasskazivaet drugim :)chasto samie 'podxodyashie' drug drugu lyudi goda vmeste ne zhivut, a samie rasnie - vmeste 'do groba'. I naoborot bivaet ne rezhe. Esim... 'Kazhdiy chelovek - kuznechik svoego schastya' ©dontrememberwho.Konechno recepta ne sushestvuet. Esli znat` chto v etoi zhizni na 100% pravil'no, a chto net, to i zhit` bi bilo neinteresno. no sovershat` postoyanno oshibki toje ne xochetsia. vot i nado iskat` "zolotuyu seredinu":) A naschet proverki na praktike i rasskaza... Mogu rasskazat` o sebe: u menia bil grug ( v svoyo vremia) i vsio chto bilo mejdu nami - bilo sviato dlia menia i nikto ne imel prava bit` posviaschennim v eto. Ya dumala on tak zhe otnositsia, t.k. schitala muzhchin bolee mudrimi. Potom mi rasstalis` (xot` i ne bilo stekliannix cvetov ) i cherez nekotoroe vremia ya uznayu ot nashix "obschix znakomix" chto oni bili v kurse vsex detaley nashix otnosheniy. Trudno opisat` chto pri etom chustvuesh`... kak ni stranno, po proshestvii mnogoix let, ya poimala sebia na tom, chto ya vspominayu o nem s teplimi chustvam... i ya poniala chto eto bil prosto podrostkovo- detskiy period, kototriy devushki proxodiat otvetstvennee rebiat. Da, chego to ya otklonilas' ot temi. Eto bilo skazano k tomu chto ne vsem nado delitsia i vsio rasskazivat`. Naprimer vozmojno li poniat' vzroslogo cheloveka kotoriy mog bi postupit` tak je? Poluchaetsia on dlia togo i proxodit kakoi to etap, chto bi potom o nem "pogovorit'" i obsudit`, emu(ey) vazhen ne sam process "proxozhdeniya", a posleduyuschego "peremalivaniya". Rasskazivat` ne tak uzh ploxo (ya vot tozhe rasskazala), no nado znat` meru. Ya tak dumayu !!! :xmas: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hamo Posted August 29, 2002 Report Share Posted August 29, 2002 Velichayshee zabluzhdenie schitat` muzhchin mudree zhenshin ! Umnee -eshe kuda by ne shlo (xotya s etim tozhe mnogie ne soglasyatsya), no mudree - nikogda ! dazhe esli rech idet ne o yunoshe, a o vzroslom cheloveke. Teper`, rasskazivat` ili net - konechno, nado znat` meru. No ya imel vvidu - podelitsya receptom shastya, a ne sobytiyami zhizni, t.e. - ne rasskazat` chto proizoshlo, a rasskazat` vivodi, kotorie ti sdelal. Naprimer, ya tebe govoryu: esli budesh pokupat` mashinu, nikogda ne govori dealeru o tom, chto ti sobiraeshsya brat` u nego kredit, potomu, chto on uzhe ne nastroen budet sbavlyat` cenu. pri etom mne nezachem rasskazivat` tebe konkretnuyu istoriyu v kotoruyu ya vlyapalsya i na osnove kotoroy ya sdelal etot vivod.A to, chto ti prostila togo yunoshu govorit o tvoey mudrosti i dobrote. Tak i postupay vsegda. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Masha Posted August 29, 2002 Report Share Posted August 29, 2002 Velichayshee zabluzhdenie schitat` muzhchin mudree zhenshin ! Umnee -eshe kuda by ne shlo (xotya s etim tozhe mnogie ne soglasyatsya), no mudree - nikogda ! dazhe esli rech idet ne o yunoshe, a o vzroslom cheloveke. Teper`, rasskazivat` ili net - konechno, nado znat` meru. No ya imel vvidu - podelitsya receptom shastya, a ne sobytiyami zhizni, t.e. - ne rasskazat` chto proizoshlo, a rasskazat` vivodi, kotorie ti sdelal. Naprimer, ya tebe govoryu: esli budesh pokupat` mashinu, nikogda ne govori dealeru o tom, chto ti sobiraeshsya brat` u nego kredit, potomu, chto on uzhe ne nastroen budet sbavlyat` cenu. pri etom mne nezachem rasskazivat` tebe konkretnuyu istoriyu v kotoruyu ya vlyapalsya i na osnove kotoroy ya sdelal etot vivod.A to, chto ti prostila togo yunoshu govorit o tvoey mudrosti i dobrote. Tak i postupay vsegda.NAdo je, vezde sploshnie shutochki na jenskuyu logiku, a tut takoi komplimnet!! :hehe:Tvoya pravda naschet receptov scastia:) Xotia esli ti bi rasskazal svoyu konkretnuyu istoriyu s dealerom, to mojet kto to srazu i skazal bi naschet kredita(k primeru) :xmas: (sdelal bi svoi vivodi osnovivayas na tvoyom opite) No vrode ya uje sovsem otoshla ot temi, tak chto "zakrivayus'" :xmas: Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Boka Posted August 30, 2002 Author Report Share Posted August 30, 2002 Приятно, что эта тема вызвала столько откликов у народа. А я то думал, что меня сочтут мещанином. Видно не мне одному противно, когда люди не выдерживают испытания деньгами Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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